Why do Relationships not work?

"I am no more in a relationship!" we get to hear this so often these days. I wonder how many of them have at least tried to give another chance. I am sure only a handful. Why these days relationships have become so fragile that even the tiniest of arguments makes a person part ways? Well two things one EGO and another our best friend these days technology.So how does this work - ego will not let you talk to the person and technology (viz our very on facebook and instagram and the like)  Will give you umteen options!  Sigh!  :(

How I wish I could go to an era where there were no smart phones and the only purpose of the device would be to make calls!  You know half the problem of fights and misunderstandings would be solved if only people could talk. Well going back to the point of giving another chance why don't we shun the ego for once and take a step forward and address the issue and talk. Simple talks sometimes helps people sign treaty's between nations and I am talking about laymen. And may be try to do things which the both of you loved doing when you started the relationship the reason why you fell for each other. Those little things will make you feel that what really happened was just momentary you both are the same old but just that there some misunderstanding. Relationships ain't that complicated but humans are the more you indulge in what other people perceive about your relation and the person with whom you are in one that is just the beginning of all the problems. To cite an example a person comments on your boyfriend/girlfriend that thought is not even at the tiniest corner of your mind but then when your boyfriend behaves in the same manner it pricks you and you start pin pointing certain actions. Just think once had another person not mentioned would you behave like that. A simple answer which most of you will have is a NO.  People are driven by emotions and opinions and it is very easy to make or break one. So make your own judgement and follow your heart because when it comes to love the heart is mostly honest and will give a correct answer. Since I covered the ego aspect now moving to technology I'll be a li'l harsh here.  As much it does good it can be worse. Relations are walking on a Wi-Fi road were frequency of the connection is the lowest! These days as soon as someone goes through the phase of break up..  the first thing they do is Block the individual from FB instagram whatsapp and blah blah blah. I wonder what satisfaction it brings. Will this take that person off your brains?  Honey your brains does not have a ctrl +shift +Del option no matter from which medium you try to remove the person it will be with you in your thoughts in your mind and very much in your heart. Instead little talking can do wonders I promise. On the other hand, even giving a second chance does not work sometimes the only option is to part ways still instead of going bizzerk and blocking everywhere talk and peacefully part ways. 

Relationships work and sometime they don't but if you feel giving a little push can give sunshine in a gloomy weather then I feel it is worth the try isn't it??

Love brings the best in you,
as much it brings forth the worst .
Bend a little mend a little,
and you can surely make it work!

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